Monday, August 13, 2007

Girls don't want Mr. Nice guy.

I've come to the realization that girls don't want a nice guy. Sure they say they do, they bitch and complain and whine about how all guys are dicks and cheaters and care only about themselves and are wondering if there are any normal or "nice" guys out there. When in reality there are lots of them, but they are treated like shit and tossed to the curb because they don't "challenge" them enough.

Girls like to play games.

Plain and simple. Sure guys do to, but girls do it just the same and they are about as bad as it comes when breaking hearts or treating nice guys like shit. Take for example, my relationship with my ex. The last two ex's to be exact. Both of them were totally in to me when I first started going out with them because for once, since they both just got out of bad relationships, they were going out with someone that was treating them with respect. Someone that treated them fairly and went out of their way to be supportive and helpful.

But soon that started to fall through. They had gotten what they wanted out of me, someone to make their ex's jealous or to fill that void of loneliness they began talking to their ex again and seeing them and going out with them. All the while lying to me and treating me like shit. Using words like "it's not you it's me" or "you deserve someone better". After saying "I love you" and opening the floodgates they closed them abruptly and cut me off.

My heart was broken, I felt like shit. But I held on as they would go back to their ex's calling me and bitching how they are being treated like shit or how the other person has changed. They were liers and still are, but I guess they deserve them since they are liers themselves. Am I bitter? Yeah. After being burned twice now by two different girls that I could have sworn were different then all the other garbage out there I have come to the fact that all girls are lying whores that say one thing when they mean the opposite.

Hey, it's possible that there are nice girls out there just like there are nice guys, but the REAL ones are so few and far between the chances of meeting one are slim to none. So I guess they'll be one less nice guy in this world to date because from now on I only care about one person: myself.

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